March 2014: The Children Are Tender

Caregiving, teaching little kids to read, and riding in the pickup with Farmer John; I tweet, pin, and blog, from my home in rural Kansas. If you've landed here looking for information about my books, visit my author's page by clicking this link: Amazon.com/Linda A. Born. Thanks for visiting!

Wednesday, December 31, 2025

Christmas Greetings and Letter 2025

 John and I have been busy taking care of our grandkids and praying our youngest grandson, not quite five months old, through open heart surgery.  The last months have been quite an adventure.  James is two weeks out of surgery at this writing and is doing well with a prognosis to live a normal life (his corrected heart defect is the same as experienced by Olympic snowboarder Shaun White).  Regarding the postscript written December 21 (below) the problem that sent James back to PICU was resolved and he was dismissed from the hospital December 24.  We are grateful to the Lord!  Prayers for his safety through cold and flu season this year still appreciated.  We will continue to shelter for about 8 weeks longer so we can remain available to the kids to babysit without exposing them to the sicknesses that seem rampant right now.  We are really going to enjoy spring this year!  

Below is our Christmas letter for 2025: 


December 20, 2025

Dear Friends and Family, 

As I write this, a Veggie Tales movie is playing on the TV to my right, and directly in front of me are two very cute little girls eating popcorn and drinking root beer. We’ve had ice cream for dessert most meals, but each time I serve fruits or vegetables I photograph them attractively for evidence of my generally responsible grandparenting.  

Rebekah, 10, and Kathryn, nearly 3, have been here for several nights while their mom, dad and baby brother, James, are at Children’s Mercy in Kansas City for four-month-old James’s open-heart surgery.  He is recovering well, but we request your continued prayers for healing and protection from illnesses while he recovers fully over the next few months.  We are filled with gratitude today as James smiled for the first time since his surgery 4 days ago.  Our family has been carried on the wings of many loving prayers, and our hearts are lighter tonight than they’ve been all week in the light of James’s smile.  

Our Rausch kids and grandkids are doing well.  Daniel, 17, is a senior in high school and will attend K-State next year.  Logan, 13, is rocking junior high as he exhibits an unexpected talent for trombone playing (who knew?) and an expected talent on the basketball court. Isaac, 10, is a fourth grader, and Lydia is a year old. Brian and Melinda are right in the middle of a very busy but greatly blessed season of their lives.   

John is farming just as he has done for fifty-some years, and I do a lot of cooking, cleaning, praying, and praising God for our blessings.  I have tabled work on a book of devotions for homeschooled kids entering the public school but plan to return to it soon.   

Prayers for each of you in the challenges and joys you are experiencing in your lives.  

John and Linda

May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.

Romans 15:13

P.S.  As of this morning, December 21, James is back in ICU for what we think will be a temporary problem in his recovery. Continued prayers appreciated!  Love and prayers to you all.  






Saturday, December 28, 2024

December Photos

 


Jonathan and Nicole took their own Christmas photos on their land.  Love! 

At left, my 71st birthday selfie.  John was Covid positive also (thanks to me) so we spent the day together.  On Christmas day we were still isolating so Melinda and the boys came and sang "We Wish You a Merry Christmas" and brought treats!  Mel made my traditional strawberry swirl cheesecake for my birthday.  


At left, Melinda with her Daddy in 1980, at right, Melinda with her new baby wearing the very same outfit in 2024.  

Friday, December 27, 2024

Catching Up With Photos for the Year -- November

 




We have SIX grandkids now!!!  Blessing upon blessing, thank You Lord.  












Catching Up With Photos for the Year--October

Our dear friends, Jim and Myrna, celebrated their 50th anniversary in October.  




Son Jonathan is never so happy as when he is combining, and happier still if the buddy seat is full! 

Isaac turned 9 years old and Jonathan turned 37.  



 

Tuesday, December 24, 2024

Christmas Letter







 Dear Friends and Family, 

I'm writing this on Christmas Eve, too late to send snail mail greetings! John and I have spent the better part of December suffering our first ever bout with Covid, and although we were blessed with no complications, it kept us each down for the better part of two weeks.  And then we both had rebound symptoms and so have postponed our family Christmas celebration to New Year's Day.  So, that's my excuse for no cards sent this year.

In March Melinda and Brian shared the news that we would become grandparents for the 6th time in November.  Lydia Grace Rausch joined our family on November 1, and we are so blessed.  

We lost both John's parents this year; Johnnie passed away in May and Irma followed him 6 months later.  Most of you are familiar with the ups and downs of grieving that are always intertwined with more details and decision-making than one would expect.  We miss them and it still doesn't seem possible that they are gone.  

This spring I republished 100 Days to Freedom with a new subtitle: Finding Rest in the Love of God.  It's available at Amazon, here.  

In March Brian and Melinda had their 20th anniversary, and we celebrated our 50th.  Our 50th slideshow is here.  

A quick analysis of my year's calendar entries for our 12 immediate family members reveals 4 cases of Covid, multiple less serious viruses, 1 case of pneumonia, one fall on the ice, two ER trips, and eleven pots of homemade chicken noodle soup made and distributed. My go to response in any crisis is to make chicken noodle soup, right after fervent prayer that is.  

I am so aware of the abiding goodness of God through joys, sorrows and everything in between.  His presence with us sees us through. 

I feel so much gratitude to our friends and loved ones who gave so freely of their love and prayers when we had need this year.  Never hesitate to ask us for prayer. We are here for you as you have been so steadfastly present for us.  

Wishing each of you a blessed 2025, 

John, Linda, and family

 



Sunday, December 22, 2024

Summary of Our Year

 I’m writing this post on my 71st birthday.  John and I have spent the better part of December enduring our first ever case of Covid. Praising God for no hospitalizations and for His constant presence with us.  

Here is a summary of our year:  

        January:  I fell on ice and hurt my hip, Kathryn had pneumonia, Bri & Mel and family had a terrible cold, and I worked on a slideshow for our upcoming 50th anniversary.  I had a sudden vitreous detachment in the back of my right eye that resulted in lots of new floaters and intermittent blurry vision in that eye.  

Food prepared included: 

·      chicken fajita casserole, 

·      chicken salad, 

·      chicken rice soup, 

·      cinnamon rolls 

·      pecan cinnamon rolls for a raffle at school

·      5 lbs taco meat for freezer, 

·      Five layer casserole.  (link to Dolly Parton’s 5 layer casserole)

     February: Bekah to ER for an x-ray of her arm, not broken!  The Chief’s won the Super Bowl for the second year in a row and we celebrated at Bri and Mel’s!  John had a virus that made him dizzy.  On the 17th both our kids’ families spent the day in four different towns for their kids’ basketball games.  Nicole’s fever went sky high with Covid.  Jonathan mildly ill. Isaac had the stomach flu.  I made chicken soup.  On the 26th we bought a 2023 GMC Terrain as our 50th anniversary gift to one another!  Jonathan flew to Houston. John spread fertilizer and anhydrous. 

Food prepared included: 

·      Chocolate chip cookies made with Bekah

·      Sweet and sour chicken

·      Chicken fajitas

·      Chicken enchilada noodle casserole

·      Cinnamon rolls

     March:  I republished 100 Days to Freedom with a new subtitle: Finding Rest in the Love of God.  Lebo girls and boys headed to state tourneys.  Over spring break I had increasing pain in a wisdom tooth and could find no one available to pull it or treat it.  Panic!  On the 14th I had a root canal at Touchstone Endodontics in Lenexa.  John had a thyroid ultrasound; all clear.  I had to go on bedrest for three days for my hip and lower back.  Daniel to ER with cluster headache; he had a severe sinus infection. We found out we are going to be grandparents for the 6th time come November! Melinda and Brian celebrated their 20th anniversary on the 27th, and we celebrated our 50th anniversary March 30.  

Not much food prep this month because of tooth debacle and hip pain but I did bake a ham, stew a chicken, made up some hamburgers for the freezer, and had the little boys out for a meatloaf lunch; Isaac’s favorite.  

    April: Stomach virus hit the Born grands. I made 1.5 gallons chicken noodle soup and split it among us and both our kids and their families.  We all got out our eclipse glasses on the 8th to watch an 80% solar eclipse. 

Food prepared included: 

·      Lots of chicken noodle soup

·      Baked & shredded 2 pans of sirloin for bbq sandwiches or taquitos

·      Chicken salad

·      Cinnamon rolls

    May: On the first of May, John’s dad went home to be with the Lord.  I saw Joan Grother for a swollen gland under my chin.  Cousin Pam came down for Johnnie’s visitation on the 4th.  I became very tired with auto-immune symptoms; had a neck ultrasound and blood tests.  On the 15th we lost our huge elm tree, the only tree I ever planted.  So sad; we have no shade for the deck now. My friend and classmate, Diana, passed away on May 27. I suffered profound exhaustion and swollen glands with sore throat for most of the month. Quote for the month: “We aren’t given grace to handle ‘what-ifs.’”  

Food prepared included: 

·      Lemon bars and blueberry bars

·      BBQ  chicken for Mother’s Day

·      Layered salad

     June: Logan to ER for a little cut on the back of his neck—3 stitches. Had family out for Father’s day. All of our grands (except Kathryn) were busy all month with baseball/softball. Had the Rausch boys to lunch  on the 21stand Rebekah to breakfast on the 26th. Since I break out in a rash in the sun, I spent a lot of time watching ballgames on the Gamechanger app.  

Food prepared included: 

·      Father’s day supper: southwest chicken casserole, green beans, apple pie

·      Cinnamon rolls

·      Homemade chicken broth

    July: On the 4th we celebrate Irma’s 96th birthday and enjoyed unseasonably cool temps of just around 80 degrees or so.  Melinda had a wonderful sonogram showing a very healthy and active baby! We enjoyed a trek to Burlington to look at the kids’ fair projects, they all did amazingly well.  Brian is redoing their family room, and we had supper there one night. I made 3 double batches of play dough for Melinda for Bible School.  Had the grandkids out for a “make your own pizza” lunch.  

Food prepared included: 

·      Sweet corn for the freezer, 80+ pints

·      Meatballs 

·      Pull apart bread

·      Spaghetti and meat sauce

·      Homemade pizza

·      Chicken salad

·      Cinnamon rolls

     August: I began deep cleaning house with John’s help, preparing to give a little baby shower for Melinda. Struggled with profound exhaustion, sore throat, swollen glands. Irma had her fourth cancer surgery on August 6.    I painted the church pew and re-did the front door with quarter round trim and a new peephole. We received 4.5” of rain with an early morning storm on the 13th.  Cousin Pam sold her house in K.C. and moved to Florida.  Had all the kids to supper on the 31st.  

     September: Hip x-ray showed no fracture.  Blood tests showed white count a little high.  The men began harvesting an amazing corn crop—on the hill the monitor said 200 bpa in places, averaged over 150 bpa and 180 bpa in another field.   Hosted a little baby shower for Melinda on September 28; very sweet.  

Food prepared included: 

·      3 kinds of cookies  and 2 kinds of mini cupcakes for the shower.

·      Sent several meals to Mel’s family, chicken breasts and rice, spaghetti & meat sauce, chicken soup and cinnamon rolls, smothered steak.  I took sloppy joe & rotel dip & chips to feed the workers on the 30th as the boys installed new windows in Brian and Melinda’s remodeled family room.  

     October: We received our flu shots on the 7th.  Nicole brought baby clothes for Melinda to sort through.  I laundered them and laid them out on tables for her to take what she needed.  We hosted Jonathan and Isaac’s birthday supper here on the 20th sans Kathryn and Nicole who were home sick. Irma was hospitalized with low O2 on the 22nd.  Irma home and on hospice as of the 27th.  I put food in the freezer to have for when the boys stay while their baby sister makes her appearance; chicken soup, sloppy joe, spaghetti sauce, hamburger patties.  

Other food prepared included:

·      6 pounds of hamburger browned and seasoned for the freezer, 

·      Crockpot butter beef & potatoes, 

·      Roast beef, mashed potatoes and gravy, Born corn for Jon and Isaac’s birthday supper with apple pie for dessert. 

·      Made Chicken rice soup and chocolate cupcakes with sprinkles for the Rausch fam on the day of Isaac’s birthday.  

    November: Lydia Grace Rausch arrived, 8 lbs 12.9 ounces, 20.5” long, 1:37 pm.  We met her for the first time on November 2.  On November 10, John’s mom went home to be with the Lord. I got to hold the baby about an hour a day on the 11th through the 15th.  Had a CT scan of my neck at Newman’s and all looked fine but my white count was higher so I have an appointment in January to see a hematologist.  I prepared nearly the entire Thanksgiving meal in advance, even freezing the cooked sweet potatoes and it all turned out great.  We had a sweet gathering on Thanksgiving Day, so much to be thankful for but also grief to process with Johnnie and Irma’s absence.    

    December: Both John and I had Covid this month.  I came down with it the evening of the 8th and was miserably sick on the 9th and 10th, moderately sick another 5 days.  Had stomach upset for another couple of weeks.  Finally better on the day of my birthday.  John got well faster than I did but had hard chills and deep cough.  We both suffered mild rebound symptoms with headaches and sinus congestion and still-positive tests in the third week of Covid, and so we postponed our Christmas celebration with family to New Year's Day.  

Saturday, July 20, 2024

Grandchildren Joy

 



Isaac watched "How to Tame Your Dragon" while the older boys played Chess. Poppy observed!  

Home run contest!  


Moose does not mind garden snakes in my flowers but I am not fond of being surprised by a wiggly little visitor.  

On the 19th I had the grand boys over for lunch.  What fun!  First a home run contest with the Blitz Ball set.  Then a red slider turtle in the ditch (great excitement), two small garden snakes which they valiantly attempted to relocate from my flower garden but “Sorry Grammy, one got away…”. Then an unusually colored cricket (Can you get a jar, quick?) and finally there was a monarch caterpillar far from a host plant.  So they captured it and took it home to their milkweed patch.  

There was an intense game of Chess between the older two, and an indoor game of “Rollers,” a new game I found for them at Etsy.  It is definitely meant to be an outdoor game but nothing was broken although it involves rolling wooden disks at high velocity.  

There was also a small wasp of unknown variety on the windowsill inside the house and they captured it.  

I fed them spaghetti and meatballs for lunch along with pull apart bread and they were lavish with their praise of my culinary skill!    Oh my goodness what a fun day.  Love those boys.  


Here is beautiful Bekah with her first ever sewing projects for 4-H!  So happy she is learning to sew and she is a natural at modeling.  

And this baby girl pages through a book from left to right, orienting the book properly, and tells herself the story in amazing-to-Grammy pre-reading virtuosity!  On this day she was gaining some helpful organizational and housekeeping tips.  Her Mom said, "Kathryn are you learning about cleaning and organizing?"  And Kathryn replied, "Yah!"  

Sunday, July 14, 2024

July 2024

 

With 16-year-old Daniel's help our lawn stays mown and needed weeding done.  He's done lots of work for his grandpa (Poppy) this summer swathing hay and helping John move from field to field.  

In July Jonathan trimmed his beard and I was happy.  While in the dentist's chair waiting for the cap on a tooth to be formed and after a tough filling, I ordered new red sneakers from my phone.  Sense of entitlement to receive some kind of a gift for having to go to the dentist?  And on the 13th we celebrated John's July 15 birthday--he turned 72 years old!!!  Doesn't look it.  

Our LoJo is 12 years old as of July 8.  We celebrated with roast beef, mashed potatoes and gravy, and garden fresh corn and green beans.  Logan had his mom make a pina colada cake for his celebration and then on the day of his birthday a chocolate pudding cake!  Hey, 12th birthdays are special!!  





Irma celebrated her 96th birthday with two family gatherings the first on June 29th for her traditional breakfast and the second on July 4th at noon.  Here she is with her five great grandchildren.